My husband and I eloped.
People are often surprised by this. However, we had been engaged for about six months when the September 11th attacks occurred. After the horrific events of that day, we decided that there was no point in waiting any longer. We were deeply in love, so we decided to just go for it. We eloped because we wanted to get married right away, and we had no interest in an expensive, stressful, overdone affair. We wanted our wedding to reflect our interests, to be relaxing, fun, and unique.
My husband loves trains. He's in the process of building a model train layout in his basement office. Rail travel is distinctly romantic, so we decided that we would get married aboard Amtrak. But when I called them with this proposal, they said "OK. How are you going to do that?"
No one had ever been married on Amtrak before. We are the first (and to my knowledge, the only) couple to be married aboard an Amtrak train. We had to bring our own minister, because there's no one on Amtrak who's qualified to marry people (it's not like a cruise ship). After marrying us, the minister stayed on the train long enough to sign the marriage certificate, and eat some cake. His wife was waiting at the next stop to take him home. We stayed on the train, and traveled to the Grand Canyon for our honeymoon.
We were married on September 26, 2001 aboard the Amtrak Southwest Chief. Here we are, saying our vows on the train:
The only expenses associated with our wedding were:
-Ticket for the minister-$45
-Small, 2 layer cake-$25
-My dress and shoes-$101 (clearance specials)
-Flowers-$65
-Marriage license-$25
-Amtrak trip-$1500
This included:
Two tickets to Grand Canyon (both ways)
Food and sleeping accomodations on train
3 nights at hotel in Flagstaff, AZ
Bus tour of Grand Canyon
-Champagne, meals out in Flagstaff, misc. expenses: $285
Total: $2046
According to costofwedding.com, the average couple in my city spends $27,070 on their wedding. This does not include the cost of the honeymoon. We spent less than a tenth of that cost, which included our honeymoon!
Here we are on our honeymoon:
A beautiful view of the Grand Canyon:
We had so much fun! The train was filled with well-wishers, who applauded and cheered for us. We had our wedding supper in the dining car, and complete strangers congratulated us and bought us drinks. Amtrak was very generous-they gave us an Amtrak blanket, T-shirts, wine and a huge fresh fruit and cheese tray. A couple on our Grand Canyon tour bus bought us a souvenir bottle of wine. It was the most memorable day of our lives.
Before we left the train station to head home, my husband wrote this on the back window of our car:
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10 comments:
Hiya, this is the first time that i have seen your blog. You look really pretty in your wedding dress. Keep up the good work
Wow, that does look like fun. We had a frugal wedding too but had a ton of people (I didn't know most of them) and I didn't enjoy it as much as I should have. We both wish we had had the guts to elope and if we had it to do over again, we would. Yay for you!
Ok....so.... I just saw a close up of your face. You are stunning! It may seem odd that I am saying this but in a previous post you had mentioned that you don't wear makeup. I see why! Lucky DUCK! I fear that if I didn't put my face on every day people would run away screaming! :)
Thank you Anonymous! That's very kind of you to say.
Oh how wonderful! What a great story. Congratulations to you. =)
This is a great wedding story! And you are truly happy and enjoying your day - which is the most important thing for a wedding, right?!
What a beautiful wedding. You both look so happy. My husband and I also had a simple happy wedding. We were married 14 years ago with simple gold bands. There is no diamond in the world that is big enough to take the place of my little gold band, for me it's priceless.
Just wondering, were any of your families present at the wedding?
wow..thats the coolest wedding and honeymoon EVER!
We had a frugal wedding, and invited friends and family. I am the first person in my family to be married (the oldest child), and we both felt it was important to have a wedding where family could attend.
Our entire wedding, including the church, marriage certificate, food for 50 people, DJ, my dress, his tux, outfits for the kids (we had 2 pre-marriage, I made ALL the wedding flowers, my mom made our three tiered cake: was $3,500.
Hubby and I did not even plan a honeymoon, we felt the wedding was more important. My mother and brother pitched in a got us a three night stay at the beach, a week after our wedding.
Family took photos, and video.
Just so people know, there are ways to host a wedding and reception without going broke.
It was all paid for with cash, too. We do not own a single credit card.
Kristen, I think it's great that you were able to do what you did for such a low cost.
For us...well, our family wasn't very accepting of our relationship at that time (though they are now), and so their attendance wasn't terribly important to us.
Things are very different now, and we've decided that on our 10th wedding anniversary, we'll have a vow-renewal ceremony and reception, with everyone included.
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