I barely ate anything all weekend, and this morning I only managed to eat half an English muffin. I have no appetite, and I have to eat teeny-tiny meals because I don't have any room left.
It's no fun to be me right now.
I feel like I'm just in limbo, waiting for the day when this child can safely come out, and my brain doesn't even work well enough to come up with any new blog material. So....for your amusement, here is a list of the top 10 most popular posts of 2009, based on comment count. I hope you enjoy reading through them again, as I did.
10) ***TIE***
Sleep Training a 2-Year-Old I wrote this post during a particularly difficult phase when Cakes was waking up 5 or 6 times a night. You all felt my pain.
and
The Big Day - I wrote this the night before our fertility clinic appointment, when we were to meet with our doctor and get the ball rolling for our final embryo transer. I was nervous, and a bit scared, but look where we are now! God is so good!
9) ***TIE***
Give Me Words to Speak - When I was feeling very depressed and separated from God, you let me know that I wasn't alone.
and
Why Adam Lambert Didn't Win American Idol - My rant in defense of Adam Lambert's right to win, despite his homosexuality. Incidentally, while I still think he's enormously talented, my opinion of him is decidedly less positive after his vulgar and completely inappropriate performance at the American Music Awards. In fact, I told my husband that I didn't want his CD anymore - and it has nothing to do with his sexual orientation. I just take issue with obscenity in general...especially when children could be watching.
8) ***TIE***
You Can't Get Rid of Me That Easily - After taking abuse from some (anonymous) readers, I went on a very brief hiatus, before deciding that I wouldn't give them the satisfaction of quitting.
and
Frugal Snobbery - A post in defense of being frugal in whatever way works for you!
7) Are We Boring You? - After my husband wrote a series of posts about our love story, I just wanted to make sure that our loveyness wasn't making you want to barf.
6) Update on Heather - After my recent bout of illness, my husband wanted to let you know what was going on, and you were sweetly supportive as always.
5) Thanks for the Heads Up Miss Perfect! - This is what happens when I get pissed off. When a reader criticized my kid, the mama bear in me came out. It wasn't pretty.
4) The Mystery of Pat...SOLVED! - Written after our ultrasound, which revealed what you all seemed to know already...that "Pat" (now known as DJ) was a boy!
3) IVF Parents - We're Just Like You - My defense of an IVF parent's right to have the same fears, worries, complaints, and joys as any other parent.
2) I Decided... - When I revealed the positive results of my pregnancy test, you were all just as happy as I was. I'm blessed with such good friends!
1) The Future of this Blog - During a time of great discouragement, when I thought about throwing in the towel, you let me know, in no uncertain terms, that you wanted me to stay. I'm so glad.
If you don't hear from me until after Christmas, I want to wish you all a happy, healthy, blessed holiday. Merry Christmas, my friends.





















15 comments:
I'm sorry you're still feeling so bad. I've been wondering how you were doing all weekend.
Have you considered having guest bloggers while you are not feeling well and when DJ is born? Lot of us who read blog too and I'm sure you could find some people who would be glad to help out. I'll volunteer if you decide to do it.
Amy @ thecircusmcgurkus.com
Amy, that's an excellent idea. I'll put up an invitation tomorrow.
OMG! Of all the posts to miss (I was moving at the time), I missed one about you quitting?! I probably would have been in tears, and still feel a little lost at the thought of you leaving. I'm so glad you've chosen not to. I suspect after the baby is born, you will be on a short hiatus understandably...and really we want you to rest up! You've had a tough year! But just imagine all the things you'll have to post about...the home birth experience, what it's like having a boy, how cute he looks in all his cloth diapers from your bloggy friend (heehee)
I guess what I'm trying to say is, don't leave us. I really don't think of blogging as a way to make money, or become popular on the web, but a way to communicate with, listen to and encourage other women out there. We're all on here because I believe we all need each other somehow. I can assure you, for that reason alone, mommy blogs at the very least are definitely not dead...moms love to talk! lol
Oh, and I was wondering what you thought about the Adam Lambert performance, or if you had even heard of it. I wasn't surprised. I loved his weirdness on American Idol and believed that based on talent, that he deserved to win. But I suspected he had a dark side that he just wasn't aloud to express on that show. It seems to me that as soon as he got the chance, he showed who he really was. And you're right, it was vulgar and nothing I would want to see again.
Anyway, I'm praying for you. Keep your head up girl.
I'm sorry you're still having a rough time. I suppose you can't take strong cough syrup because you're pg? I hope your asthma is better.
The look back was fun! Makes me curious what my own high comment posts were, lol!
oh, and I think the guest blogging is a great idea and I'd be happy to contribute too.
I'm sorry you still are hurting and not feeling good! I hope DJ will come as soon as he's ready and it's safe for him!
Wish you were feeling better. Just get better and enjoy your family during this time. Have a very Merry Christmas!!
I hope you feel better quickly. Did your other babies come early? I ask because you certainly sound uncomfortable enough for it to be sooner rather than later.
I hope you & your family have a very happy Christmas. I think your Christmas card is going to be very late- sorry.
Enjoy your precious family
Renata :)
I am so sorry you are still not feeling well!
I do follow your blog and I do enjoy it very much! I like going back on your year in review of sorts.
I agree with Amy ~ a guest blog would be interesting!
Please take care and enjoy the Holidays as much as you can
Merry Christmas
Patricia
Heather - Thanks for another update. Like others, I was rather worried about you. I am *so* sorry you're not feeling better, but thanks to your illness/riter's block I got to read some great posts form 2009 that I would have missed otherwise. I just wanted to pass along one thought on the "Give Me Words To Speak." Sometimes our depression isn't brought on by events, etc. but by a true vitamin D deficiency (also called seasonal depression). Next time you're feeling blue, try some vitamin D to help you get going. It works wonders on many fronts and helps open up other doors, too.
All the best as you continue to recover - enjoy the holiday with your family! Love, Kim
I really hope you feel better soon! I know you feel like you are in limbo, but the end result will be well worth it and you'll forget how long it actually took and how terrible you felt getting there. Have a merry Christmas and feel good soon!
Thank you for updating. I was worried and praying about you all weekend. I will have to check out some of these posts has I only found you 4 months ago. Get better soon!!
Merry Christmas.
I am sorry you are so sick and feeling so miserable. Just wait though, holding that new baby will make it all worth it and thankfully our memories are short when it comes to what we have endured during those last parts of pregnancy. Reading your top ten made me proud of you for standing up to bully comments and made me hopeful that when or if this ever happens in my blog, I will have the courage to do the same. Merry Christmas and God bless you and your family!
Sorry things aren't better yet--((Hugs)) and +Prayers+ for you.
If luck would have it--maybe DJ will make his appearance on your Birthday--(nice deduction we were for our parents)
Oh Heather, so sorry your still not feeling well!! Prayers being sent your way.
I've been meaning to tell you that I received your Christmas card and LOVED it. Great pic of the girls. And I loved your letter too. Though I must say (LOL) that is was sooooo weird to see the girls "real" names. I almost didnt know who you were talking about :)
Hope you and your family have a wonderful Christmas
melissa
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